The Virginia Birth Father Registry, formerly referred to as the Virginia Putative Father Registry, protects unmarried men’s parental rights. This system was established and maintained by the Virginia Department of Social Services. Before you can understand the need and purpose for this service, you need to comprehend the adoption process fully.
Let’s look at this through the lens of a step-parent adoption. Step-parent adoptions occur when a mother marries someone, and the person they marry wants to adopt the mother’s child legally. Before that, the birth parent’s parental rights must be terminated. There are three scenarios where this could be accomplished without a contested hearing:
- The birth father is no longer alive.
- The birth father is unknown.
- The birth father is willing to terminate his parental rights and consent to the adoption.
The second point listed above is one of the primary reasons the Virginia Birth Father Registry exists. It is for people who believe they may have fathered a child and want to protect their parental rights. They can contact the Virginia Birth Father Registry, which is both free and confidential. It is a database for putative fathers.
What Defines a “Putative Father?”
Not everyone who has a child is married. Putative fathers could be men who are not married to the child’s mother. (It is important to note that unmarried parents can sign an Acknowledgment of Paternity at the hospital when the child is born to establish their parental rights.) However, the birth father may not be at the hospital when the child is born because they may not have been told.
The Benefits of the Virginia Birth Father Registry
Continuing to Look at this through the context of a step-parent adoption: There could be a scenario where the birth mother intentionally worked to cut the biological father out of the process. If the birth father is unaware that he has a child, then a step-parent adoption could potentially proceed without his knowledge and the birth father’s parental rights would be terminated.
If someone suspects that they have a child, they can contact the Virginia Birth Father Registry. This ensures that someone will notify them if their child is put up for adoption. That is critical because this allows the father to object to the adoption process and could prevent the termination of his parental rights. However, you must contact the Virginia Birth Father Registry within ten days of your child’s birth.
To sign up, print out this form and mail it within ten days of the child’s birth to:
Virginia Department of Social Services
801 East Main Street
Richmond, VA 23219
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